Welcome to Unfilteredd
We’ll Help You Live a Life Free from the Effects of Narcissistic Abuse
We adapt our services to fit your budget, availability, and energy levels to ensure you receive the help you need in a way that works best for you.
What Happens When You Join?
1.) Getting to Know You
The first thing we’ll do is schedule a one-on-one meeting to learn more about:
2.) Making It Work for You
Once we have a good understanding of your situation, we’ll work together to determine how we can adapt our services to fit your:
3.) Choose a Specialist
Then, we’ll provide a list of our available specialists—all of whom are licensed therapists—so that you can:
4.) Your First Session
Once you select a specialist, you’ll begin meeting with them regularly to:
5.) Session Summary
After each session, you’ll receive:
6.) Around-the-Clock Support
Your specialist will check in with you between sessions to ensure you’re on the right track. But if you ever need anything:
7.) The Community
When you join, you’ll get instant access to our community, which:
What Do Our Members Say?
I’m more hopeful about the future
“One of the biggest changes I’ve noticed is how much more at peace I am. I don’t feel as anxious or on edge as I used to. I’m able to find joy in the little things again, and I’m more hopeful about the future.”
Jessica938
After 6 Months with Us
I no longer tolerate toxic behavior
“I’m much more selective about who I allow into my life now. I no longer tolerate toxic behavior or feel the need to explain myself to people who don’t respect me. I’m surrounding myself with healthier, more supportive people, and it’s made a big difference in my day-to-day life.”
AshWhite_85
After 3 Months with Us
I no longer feel powerless
“I can now speak up for myself calmly and confidently. I no longer feel powerless or afraid when someone disagrees with me. My time here at Unfilteredd has taught me that it’s okay to have boundaries and that I don’t have to please everyone to be worthy of love and respect.”
JasonOxx
After 6 Months with Us
I’m more in control of my reactions
“I used to feel so overwhelmed by my emotions, especially guilt and shame, but now I’ve learned how to manage them in healthier ways. I’m more in control of my reactions and can recognize when I’m being triggered, which has really helped me stay grounded.”
Mark_W
After 2 Months with Us
I’ve been able to reconnect with my inner voice
“Before joining Unfilteredd, I was constantly second-guessing myself and felt unsure about even the most straightforward decisions. But after just a few months, I’ve been able to reconnect with my inner voice and trust that what I think and feel is valid. It has been incredibly freeing for me.”
jboussea
After 6 Months with Us
I’m finally able to talk about what I went through
“What I’m most impressed with is the patience and understanding that my specialist has shown me. Her approach to our sessions has made it easier for me to open up, and I’ve actually noticed that I’m finally able to talk about what I went through without feeling ashamed or judged.”
OliviaNewStart
After 1 Month with Us
We’re now working on building a new vision for my future
“I had this vision of what our life together would look like, and when it collapsed, I felt like I lost everything. Jebin has done an amazing job at helping me grieve and mourn the loss of something that never truly existed. We’re now working on building a new vision for my future that’s safe, realistic, fulfilling, and, most importantly, rooted in reality.”
MichaelL1
After 5 Months with Us
I’m way more aware of the mental fog
“Unfilteredd has completely changed my life. It’s incredible how much easier it is to focus and stay present. I’m not constantly drained from trying to make sense of the manipulation and everything else. I can think clearly and handle things without feeling overwhelmed or lost. I still have my moments, but I’m way more aware of the mental fog and can work through it instead of staying stuck in it.”
Dave
After 4 Months with Us
I feel like we’re truly working as a team
“The most noticeable improvement is how I’m starting to believe in my value and appreciate who I am without needing external validation. I can’t believe I’m even saying this because I initially didn’t think anyone would have my best interests at heart. But you’ve been so consistent in your willingness to adapt to my needs, and it has helped me feel so much more safe. I feel like we’re truly working as a team, and I’m excited to see what the future holds.”
Pammy
After 4 Months with Us
I feel a sense of peace
“It hasn’t been easy, but I’m learning to forgive myself. I used to carry a lot of blame for things that weren’t my fault, but now I’m starting to let that go and be kinder to myself. After years of trying to get to this point, I feel a sense of peace I never thought was possible, and it’s all thanks to the team and community Unfilteredd has built.”
EmilyJ92
After 4 Months with Us
my emotions no longer control me
“I’ve noticed how much more in control I feel when triggers arise. Instead of being overwhelmed by panic or fear, I can take a step back, assess the situation, and give a cool, calm, and collected response. It may not seem like much, but the work we’ve done together has given me a second chance at life because my emotions no longer control me.”
Love_Moon
After 2 Months with Us
I love what this has done to my self-image
“The accomplishment I’m most excited about and proud of is that I’m starting to accept and internalize compliments more gracefully. I’m still getting used to it, but there’s a shift happening in how I receive kindness from others. I’m beginning to feel worthy of praise, and instead of deflecting, I’m allowing myself to take it in. I love what this has done to my self-image, and I feel more confident in my interactions with others.”
Chapter1
After 6 Months with Us
you made it easy
“I tend to push myself to exhaustion because my parents made me feel like I always had to be productive to be valuable. It’s hard for me to open up about this, but you made it easy. You didn’t push me; you just listened and helped me adjust how I manage my time and energy. I don’t push through when I feel exhausted anymore. I allow myself to rest without feeling lazy or worthless. Our meetings helped me develop a healthier relationship with work, rest, and self-compassion and, funny enough, made me even more productive.”
LL92
After 2 Months with Us
It feels freeing to just be present
“I feel more relaxed in social situations. I’m not obsessing over doing or saying something “wrong.” I’m not paranoid about being manipulated. I’m getting good at differentiating between unhealthy vs. healthy behavior. It feels freeing to just be present instead of constantly monitoring myself and the people around me.”
DanielL_75
After 4 Months with Us
You’ve helped me develop strategies
“You’ve helped me develop strategies for managing stress that I’ll use for the rest of my life. Two months ago, stress would bring on a panic attack. This was normal to me. When things get stressful now, I take a breath, use the strategies we created, and deal with things one at a time instead of letting that rush of panic take complete control of how I handle stuff.”
BWG94
After 5 Months with Us
Tell rumination I said GOOD FREAKING BYE
“Tell rumination I said GOOD FREAKING BYE. My mind would constantly replay old conversations, arguments, and situations, trying to make sense of things or figure out what I could’ve done differently. It felt like I was stuck in an endless loop of “what if” scenarios, always searching for answers or some kind of closure that never came. I don’t get caught up in those mental traps anymore. I stop the spiral before it starts, or if it does start, I can pull myself out of it almost immediately!”
Goodbye
After 3 Months with Us
I’m focusing on my own growth
“The best thing you’ve done for me is show me how to release the need for revenge. For a long time, I believed that I couldn’t move forward until they felt the same pain I did. You were the first person to help me see that true healing (in my case) doesn’t come from seeing the narcissist suffer. It comes from releasing that need altogether. I no longer need them to face the consequences for me to heal. I’m focusing on my own growth and happiness.”
H_9
After 2 Months with Us
I’m excited to continue our sessions
“I don’t crave their validation or affection anymore. I don’t need their praise or attention to feel worthy. I’m building a new sense of validation and approval from within myself. I’m learning to give myself what I was always chasing from them—recognition, love, and acceptance. It’s been a slow process, but you’ve been with me every step of the way. I’m excited to continue our sessions and work on my relationship with myself.”
Mason33
After 2 Months with Us
I no longer feel obligated to fix them
“I don’t have this overwhelming need to “save” others anymore. I’ve learned that it’s not my role to be the rescuer in every situation, and this has lifted a gigantic weight off my shoulders. When someone shares their problems with me, I can listen with compassion, but I no longer feel obligated to fix them or take on their emotional burdens as my own. This skill has allowed me to show up for others in a healthier way while still protecting my peace from people who wish to take advantage of me.”
CHRLO3
After 6 Months with Us
I didn’t expect to regain this connection
“Thank you for getting rid of my emotional numbness. I can feel joy, sadness, frustration, and even excitement again, and it’s not overwhelming or scary. It feels natural. I didn’t expect to regain this connection to my emotions, but it’s like the walls I put up are coming down, and it’s made me feel more alive and in tune with myself.”
Sunshine_
After 1 Month with Us
people can actually see the real me now
“The first thing that comes to mind is eye contact! I’m so much more comfortable looking people in the eyes now. I think it’s because I’ve built more confidence in who I am, and I’m no longer afraid of being seen. This is such a small thing when you compare it to all the other ways my life has improved since joining Unfilteredd, but this eye contact stuff has really changed the way I interact with others. I’m more open and engaged, and I feel like people can actually see the real me now.”
Ava_B
After 4 Months with Us
It’s safe to say Unfilteredd helped me
“I’ve been able to confront the hostile inner critic that used to dominate my thoughts and replace it with one that is way more supportive and understanding. It hasn’t been easy, but I’m finally feeling more at peace, I don’t blame myself as often, and I’m learning to be more forgiving of the things I did to survive the abuse. It’s safe to say Unfilteredd helped me in ways I didn’t expect but desperately needed.”
Someone1
After 5 Months with Us
I’m able to communicate more effectively
“I’ve really appreciated the work we’ve done around my triggers and learning how to sit with my feelings without letting them take over. I’ve developed a much stronger ability to regulate my emotions, and now I can experience them fully while still keeping my balance. This has done a lot for many areas of my life, but most importantly, it’s improved my relationships. I’m able to communicate more effectively in triggering situations instead of shutting down and pushing people away.”
HeatherK
After 2 Months with Us
this experience has brought me closer to the person I want to be
“I tear up every time I think about my progress. I’m so grateful for everything you’ve done for me, and this experience has brought me closer to the person I want to be. I can’t believe I’m even saying this, but I’m optimistic about the future. Thank you for providing a safe space for me to heal and rebuild myself. I can’t wait for my next session!”
Kr67
After 6 Months with Us
nothing holds me back anymore
“You’ve helped me so much that I don’t even know where to begin. Guilt, rumination, self-blame, self-doubt, shame, nothing holds me back anymore. I have so much more control over my thoughts and emotions. I’m not saying that all of my issues have disappeared, but I feel better equipped to handle them when they arise. Without a shout of a doubt, Unfilteredd is the best support I’ve ever had.”
GraceK_75
After 6 Months with Us
I’ve let go of the guilt
“My relationship with self-care has changed a lot. It’s no longer just about checking off a list of things I should do, like eating well or exercising (though those are still important). Instead, I’ve come to see self-care as a form of self-respect. I’m learning to listen to my body and mind, recognizing when I need rest, when I need to engage in something creative, or when I just need a moment of what I call “nothingness.” This change has made self-care feel much more natural and less like a chore, and I’ve let go of the guilt I used to carry for wanting to take care of myself.”
MM-L
After 4 Months with Us
I had been in no contact for five years
“When I came in, I was feeling so ashamed and worthless. I had been in no contact for five years and his voice was still all up in my head telling me I wasn’t good enough or that I’d never find someone who loved me for me. I haven’t found that person yet, but I know it will happen. I’ve been able to kick the internalized shame to the curb because you helped me see that those messages were never a reflection of my true self but rather his projections. This realization has been crucial in rebuilding my self-esteem and faith in my ability to be loved.”
MovingForward
After 3 Months with Us
I owe so much of who I am today to this program
“I wasn’t sure how or if I could ever rebuild my relationship with my family because of the damage my marriage caused. I had tried so many different things to reconnect that all failed, so I figured I’d open up a bit about my experience, go through the motions, and maybe pick up a tip or two, and that would be it. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Your advice to start with simple, low-pressure gestures like sending a text or suggesting a casual meet-up, rather than feeling like I had to immediately re-establish deep connections, was terrific. I enjoyed working together to respond to messages and set up meet-ups in a natural and manageable way. I owe so much of who I am today to this program.”
Jim
After 2 Months with Us
I’ve been under the thumb of my mother for my entire life
“I’ve been under the thumb of my mother for my entire life. When I finally broke free, I didn’t have a flipping clue about what I liked, what I wanted, or even who I was. I was honestly disgusted with myself. How could I have let her have so much control over me? Why didn’t I see it sooner? The community and my specialist, Satadeepa, have been incredible in guiding me through the process of healing and rediscovering my interests, values, and passions. My time here has been one of the most liberating experiences of my healing journey. For the first time ever, when I look in the mirror, I see someone I recognize and I truly respect.”
EmmaL
After 5 Months with Us
I’m more hopeful about the future
“One of the biggest changes I’ve noticed is how much more at peace I am. I don’t feel as anxious or on edge as I used to. I’m able to find joy in the little things again, and I’m more hopeful about the future.”
Jessica938
After 6 Months with Us
I no longer tolerate toxic behavior
“I’m much more selective about who I allow into my life now. I no longer tolerate toxic behavior or feel the need to explain myself to people who don’t respect me. I’m surrounding myself with healthier, more supportive people, and it’s made a big difference in my day-to-day life.”
AshWhite_85
After 3 Months with Us
I no longer feel powerless
“I can now speak up for myself calmly and confidently. I no longer feel powerless or afraid when someone disagrees with me. My time here at Unfilteredd has taught me that it’s okay to have boundaries and that I don’t have to please everyone to be worthy of love and respect.”
JasonOxx
After 6 Months with Us
I’m more in control of my reactions
“I used to feel so overwhelmed by my emotions, especially guilt and shame, but now I’ve learned how to manage them in healthier ways. I’m more in control of my reactions and can recognize when I’m being triggered, which has really helped me stay grounded.”
Mark_W
After 2 Months with Us
I’ve been able to reconnect with my inner voice
“Before joining Unfilteredd, I was constantly second-guessing myself and felt unsure about even the most straightforward decisions. But after just a few months, I’ve been able to reconnect with my inner voice and trust that what I think and feel is valid. It has been incredibly freeing for me.”
jboussea
After 6 Months with Us
I’m finally able to talk about what I went through
“What I’m most impressed with is the patience and understanding that my specialist has shown me. Her approach to our sessions has made it easier for me to open up, and I’ve actually noticed that I’m finally able to talk about what I went through without feeling ashamed or judged.”
OliviaNewStart
After 1 Month with Us
We’re now working on building a new vision for my future
“I had this vision of what our life together would look like, and when it collapsed, I felt like I lost everything. Jebin has done an amazing job at helping me grieve and mourn the loss of something that never truly existed. We’re now working on building a new vision for my future that’s safe, realistic, fulfilling, and, most importantly, rooted in reality.”
MichaelL1
After 5 Months with Us
I’m way more aware of the mental fog
“Unfilteredd has completely changed my life. It’s incredible how much easier it is to focus and stay present. I’m not constantly drained from trying to make sense of the manipulation and everything else. I can think clearly and handle things without feeling overwhelmed or lost. I still have my moments, but I’m way more aware of the mental fog and can work through it instead of staying stuck in it.”
Dave
After 4 Months with Us
I feel like we’re truly working as a team
“The most noticeable improvement is how I’m starting to believe in my value and appreciate who I am without needing external validation. I can’t believe I’m even saying this because I initially didn’t think anyone would have my best interests at heart. But you’ve been so consistent in your willingness to adapt to my needs, and it has helped me feel so much more safe. I feel like we’re truly working as a team, and I’m excited to see what the future holds.”
Pammy
After 4 Months with Us
I feel a sense of peace
“It hasn’t been easy, but I’m learning to forgive myself. I used to carry a lot of blame for things that weren’t my fault, but now I’m starting to let that go and be kinder to myself. After years of trying to get to this point, I feel a sense of peace I never thought was possible, and it’s all thanks to the team and community Unfilteredd has built.”
EmilyJ92
After 4 Months with Us
my emotions no longer control me
“I’ve noticed how much more in control I feel when triggers arise. Instead of being overwhelmed by panic or fear, I can take a step back, assess the situation, and give a cool, calm, and collected response. It may not seem like much, but the work we’ve done together has given me a second chance at life because my emotions no longer control me.”
Love_Moon
After 2 Months with Us
I love what this has done to my self-image
“The accomplishment I’m most excited about and proud of is that I’m starting to accept and internalize compliments more gracefully. I’m still getting used to it, but there’s a shift happening in how I receive kindness from others. I’m beginning to feel worthy of praise, and instead of deflecting, I’m allowing myself to take it in. I love what this has done to my self-image, and I feel more confident in my interactions with others.”
Chapter1
After 6 Months with Us
you made it easy
“I tend to push myself to exhaustion because my parents made me feel like I always had to be productive to be valuable. It’s hard for me to open up about this, but you made it easy. You didn’t push me; you just listened and helped me adjust how I manage my time and energy. I don’t push through when I feel exhausted anymore. I allow myself to rest without feeling lazy or worthless. Our meetings helped me develop a healthier relationship with work, rest, and self-compassion and, funny enough, made me even more productive.”
LL92
After 2 Months with Us
It feels freeing to just be present
“I feel more relaxed in social situations. I’m not obsessing over doing or saying something “wrong.” I’m not paranoid about being manipulated. I’m getting good at differentiating between unhealthy vs. healthy behavior. It feels freeing to just be present instead of constantly monitoring myself and the people around me.”
DanielL_75
After 4 Months with Us
You’ve helped me develop strategies
“You’ve helped me develop strategies for managing stress that I’ll use for the rest of my life. Two months ago, stress would bring on a panic attack. This was normal to me. When things get stressful now, I take a breath, use the strategies we created, and deal with things one at a time instead of letting that rush of panic take complete control of how I handle stuff.”
BWG94
After 5 Months with Us
Tell rumination I said GOOD FREAKING BYE
“Tell rumination I said GOOD FREAKING BYE. My mind would constantly replay old conversations, arguments, and situations, trying to make sense of things or figure out what I could’ve done differently. It felt like I was stuck in an endless loop of “what if” scenarios, always searching for answers or some kind of closure that never came. I don’t get caught up in those mental traps anymore. I stop the spiral before it starts, or if it does start, I can pull myself out of it almost immediately!”
Goodbye
After 3 Months with Us
I’m focusing on my own growth
“The best thing you’ve done for me is show me how to release the need for revenge. For a long time, I believed that I couldn’t move forward until they felt the same pain I did. You were the first person to help me see that true healing (in my case) doesn’t come from seeing the narcissist suffer. It comes from releasing that need altogether. I no longer need them to face the consequences for me to heal. I’m focusing on my own growth and happiness.”
H_9
After 2 Months with Us
I’m excited to continue our sessions
“I don’t crave their validation or affection anymore. I don’t need their praise or attention to feel worthy. I’m building a new sense of validation and approval from within myself. I’m learning to give myself what I was always chasing from them—recognition, love, and acceptance. It’s been a slow process, but you’ve been with me every step of the way. I’m excited to continue our sessions and work on my relationship with myself.”
Mason33
After 2 Months with Us
I no longer feel obligated to fix them
“I don’t have this overwhelming need to “save” others anymore. I’ve learned that it’s not my role to be the rescuer in every situation, and this has lifted a gigantic weight off my shoulders. When someone shares their problems with me, I can listen with compassion, but I no longer feel obligated to fix them or take on their emotional burdens as my own. This skill has allowed me to show up for others in a healthier way while still protecting my peace from people who wish to take advantage of me.”
CHRLO3
After 6 Months with Us
I didn’t expect to regain this connection
“Thank you for getting rid of my emotional numbness. I can feel joy, sadness, frustration, and even excitement again, and it’s not overwhelming or scary. It feels natural. I didn’t expect to regain this connection to my emotions, but it’s like the walls I put up are coming down, and it’s made me feel more alive and in tune with myself.”
Sunshine_
After 1 Month with Us
people can actually see the real me now
“The first thing that comes to mind is eye contact! I’m so much more comfortable looking people in the eyes now. I think it’s because I’ve built more confidence in who I am, and I’m no longer afraid of being seen. This is such a small thing when you compare it to all the other ways my life has improved since joining Unfilteredd, but this eye contact stuff has really changed the way I interact with others. I’m more open and engaged, and I feel like people can actually see the real me now.”
Ava_B
After 4 Months with Us
IT’S SAFE TO SAY UNFILTEREDD HELPED ME
“I’ve been able to confront the hostile inner critic that used to dominate my thoughts and replace it with one that is way more supportive and understanding. It hasn’t been easy, but I’m finally feeling more at peace, I don’t blame myself as often, and I’m learning to be more forgiving of the things I did to survive the abuse. It’s safe to say Unfilteredd helped me in ways I didn’t expect but desperately needed.”
Someone1
After 5 Months with Us
I’M ABLE TO COMMUNICATE MORE EFFECTIVELY
“I’ve really appreciated the work we’ve done around my triggers and learning how to sit with my feelings without letting them take over. I’ve developed a much stronger ability to regulate my emotions, and now I can experience them fully while still keeping my balance. This has done a lot for many areas of my life, but most importantly, it’s improved my relationships. I’m able to communicate more effectively in triggering situations instead of shutting down and pushing people away.”
HeatherK
After 2 Months with Us
THIS EXPERIENCE HAS BROUGHT ME CLOSER TO THE PERSON I WANT TO BE
“I tear up every time I think about my progress. I’m so grateful for everything you’ve done for me, and this experience has brought me closer to the person I want to be. I can’t believe I’m even saying this, but I’m optimistic about the future. Thank you for providing a safe space for me to heal and rebuild myself. I can’t wait for my next session!”
Kr67
After 6 Months with Us
NOTHING HOLDS ME BACK ANYMORE
“You’ve helped me so much that I don’t even know where to begin. Guilt, rumination, self-blame, self-doubt, shame, nothing holds me back anymore. I have so much more control over my thoughts and emotions. I’m not saying that all of my issues have disappeared, but I feel better equipped to handle them when they arise. Without a shout of a doubt, Unfilteredd is the best support I’ve ever had.”
GraceK_75
After 6 Months with Us
I’VE LET GO OF THE GUILT
“My relationship with self-care has changed a lot. It’s no longer just about checking off a list of things I should do, like eating well or exercising (though those are still important). Instead, I’ve come to see self-care as a form of self-respect. I’m learning to listen to my body and mind, recognizing when I need rest, when I need to engage in something creative, or when I just need a moment of what I call “nothingness.” This change has made self-care feel much more natural and less like a chore, and I’ve let go of the guilt I used to carry for wanting to take care of myself.”
MM-L
After 4 Months with Us
I HAD BEEN IN NO CONTACT FOR FIVE YEARS
“When I came in, I was feeling so ashamed and worthless. I had been in no contact for five years and his voice was still all up in my head telling me I wasn’t good enough or that I’d never find someone who loved me for me. I haven’t found that person yet, but I know it will happen. I’ve been able to kick the internalized shame to the curb because you helped me see that those messages were never a reflection of my true self but rather his projections. This realization has been crucial in rebuilding my self-esteem and faith in my ability to be loved.”
MovingForward
After 3 Months with Us
I OWE SO MUCH OF WHO I AM TODAY TO THIS PROGRAM
“I wasn’t sure how or if I could ever rebuild my relationship with my family because of the damage my marriage caused. I had tried so many different things to reconnect that all failed, so I figured I’d open up a bit about my experience, go through the motions, and maybe pick up a tip or two, and that would be it. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Your advice to start with simple, low-pressure gestures like sending a text or suggesting a casual meet-up, rather than feeling like I had to immediately re-establish deep connections, was terrific. I enjoyed working together to respond to messages and set up meet-ups in a natural and manageable way. I owe so much of who I am today to this program.”
Jim
After 2 Months with Us
I’VE BEEN UNDER THE THUMB OF MY MOTHER FOR MY ENTIRE LIFE
“I’ve been under the thumb of my mother for my entire life. When I finally broke free, I didn’t have a flipping clue about what I liked, what I wanted, or even who I was. I was honestly disgusted with myself. How could I have let her have so much control over me? Why didn’t I see it sooner? The community and my specialist, Satadeepa, have been incredible in guiding me through the process of healing and rediscovering my interests, values, and passions. My time here has been one of the most liberating experiences of my healing journey. For the first time ever, when I look in the mirror, I see someone I recognize and I truly respect.”
EmmaL
After 5 Months with Us
We’re Ready When You Are—Let’s Book a Call
This call isn’t a commitment; it’s 100% confidential and gives you a chance to tell us more about your situation. If/when you feel ready, we can work together to determine how we can adapt our services to fit your budget, availability, and energy levels, ensuring you get the support you need in the way that works best for you.